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What Are The 3 Stages Of Weaning Your Baby?

Today, we’ll break down the 3 stages of weaning, what to expect at each stage, and share some general tips to guide you through this process.

As a mama, the journey of breastfeeding (which means both pumping and nursing) is a deeply personal and rewarding one, but it can also feel overwhelming at times. Introducing your baby to solid foods for the first time is a really significant milestone in your baby’s growth. It also sets the foundation for healthy eating habits in the future.

The transition from breast milk or formula to solid foods, however, can feel complex. Whether you’ve done it before or you’re a new parent, it can still cause a lot of stress. How do you know when it’s the right time? When do you introduce solids? What are the best ways to do it?

Today, we’ll break down the 3 stages of weaning, what to expect at each stage, and share some general tips to guide you through this process. Let’s dive in!

What Are The 3 Stages Of Weaning Your Baby?

Learning about weaning is super important, because it helps you understand what each stage involves, how it supports your baby’s development, and how it can shape their eating habits for years to come. If you’ve been a little lost on this journey or you’re wondering where to start, you’ve come to the right place.

What Is Weaning?: The Ins and Outs

Weaning is the process of slowly transitioning your baby from exclusively breast milk (or formula feeding) to a more varied diet that includes solid foods. It’s a very important part of your baby’s development, and an exciting step towards the journey ahead. The benefits of weaning include helping your baby develop better oral motor skills, encouraging self-feeding, and expanding their palate with different tastes and textures.

During weaning, your baby will gradually take in less breast milk and start consuming more solids, which will help them meet their growing nutritional needs. This process can happen over weeks or even months, and is entirely unique to every family.

What Are The Three Stages Of Weaning Your Baby?

Understanding the stages of weaning can help you feel more prepared and less overwhelmed during this transition. Each baby will move through these stages at their own pace, but the journey usually follows these three phases:

Stage 1: Introduction to solids.

The first stage of weaning usually begins between four and six months of age, when your baby shows signs of being ready for solids. These signs will usually be sitting up on their own, showing interest in food, and having better control of their tongue and mouth. The goal during this stage is to introduce your baby to a wide variety of soft, pureed foods that are rich in nutrients.

The introduction of solids doesn’t replace milk yet; it only complements it. During this phase, breast milk are still the primary source of nutrition. Just remember to be patient and let your little one explore at their own pace.

Stage 2: Increasing solid foods and reducing breastmilk.

After some time, your baby will begin to eat more solids, and may even begin to self-feed with finger foods. At this stage, your baby is transitioning from just pureed foods to more textured chopped or mashed foods (like sweet potato and butternut squash). As they begin to consume more solid foods, the need for breast milk will decrease. This stage is all about offering a variety of food including fruit and vegetables, grains, and proteins. 

3 Stages Of Weaning Your Baby

Stage 3: Full transition to solids and weaning off breastfeeding.

The last stage of weaning usually happens between 12 to 18 months, but will depend on your baby. This is when your baby is mainly eating solids, including foods like meat, fish, and soft cooked vegetables. By this point, they’ll be eating three balanced meals a day and some snacks, along with eating with the rest of the family during mealtime. Breast milk can still be offered occasionally, though  during this stage, your little one’s appetite for breast milk will decrease significantly, and you can start to wean them off it completely. The number one goal is to make sure they’re getting all their nutrients from food, while also maintaining the bond that nursing offers for as long as you both need.

How To Wean Off Pumping

Gradually reduce your pumping sessions.

Instead of going cold turkey, try to begin by gradually reducing the number of pumping sessions over a period of weeks or months. Start by cutting back on just one session every few days, and simply allow your body to adjust. Remember, slow and steady wins the race to avoid discomfort and engorgement. One of our friendly and knowledgeable lactation consultants can help to guide you on this journey too! We actually cover the entire process of weaning off pumping in The Ultimate Pumping Course, which can help you enjoy stress-free pumping from the first feed to the last.

Offer more solids.

As your baby becomes more accustomed to eating solid foods, you can begin offering them more snacks throughout the day. The increase in solids will naturally decrease their need for milk feeds, which helps ease the transition away from pumping.

Be patient with yourself.

Most of all, be patient with yourself! Weaning off pumping can be both a celebration and emotional process. So, it’s totally okay to feel conflicted about it. Take your time, listen to your body, and understand that every step towards weaning is progress for both you and your baby. Celebrate all of the moments full of connection, and try to avoid advice and opinions from others. Use some positive affirmations to guide and support you on this journey.

Wean with confidence!

Weaning doesn’t happen overnight, but with patience, consistency, and understanding, it can be a smooth transition. Remember, every baby and mama is different and there really isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach. Things like breastmilk oversupply and even your diet can have a big impact on what your journey will look like. Just trust your instincts and enjoy this next chapter of your parenting journey!

OH, and don’t forget to store your pumping parts properly after you’ve weaned!